Godly Character as a Single Person

Ruth 2:11a King James Version (KJV)

11 And Boaz answered and said unto her, It hath fully been shewed me, all that thou hast done unto thy mother in law since the death of thine husband

When Ruth asked Boaz why he gave her favor and allowed her to glean in his fields, he told her it had been shewed or reported to him all that she had done. I doubt when Ruth started her day, if she knew the blessings she would receive simply by working hard and having a good word spoken about her. I think her intention was to gather enough food for herself and her mother-in-law to eat that night. However, but working diligently, and selflessly, she gained the attention of the owner of the field.

Many who are single, and looking, sometimes wonder if God will bless them with a relationship. After I had lost my husband at a relatively young age, and after several years of healing from grief, I began to wonder if I would have the opportunity to find love again. What I kept hearing from the Lord was to continue to work hard at the tasks He had given me to do, and to put Him first.

He showed me that I needed to concern myself with my relationship with Him, and my character, and He would take care of the rest. By doing my job as unto the Lord, and by seeking Him for all other projects that came my way, I was able to put my mind at ease regarding another possible life-mate, and become a woman that would be worthy of a Godly man someday. Whether that day comes or not, I know that my relationship to the Lord is what is most important, and that is a reputation I want to always have.


If you are single, and looking for a mate, what is your biggest fear?

Does reputation and a Godly character really matter in this day and age?

Patty Luellen Nicholas is an award winning author who writes Bible studies, devotions, articles, a blog, and contemporary fiction. She has worked for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association at the Cove in Asheville, North Carolina for many years. She discovered the true meaning of God’s grace when her grief journey began with the deaths of her husband and her father seven years ago. Her heart is to share her love of Jesus with others.

This is the first post in S2S's INSPIRE: Relationships series. We hope you will join us April 9th, on our Weaverville campus as we hear from women in all stages of life from late teens to retirement share relationship insights. Light refreshments and childcare will be provided, but registration is required. Register at www.brookstonechurchurch.org/inspire


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